Classical Mythology usually
is associated with the Greeks and Romans yet many mythological characters are from
other cultures as well. Trojan mythology also forms a part of classical
mythology. The range of mythology is a timeline from prehistory to the
Byzantine. Myths are stories and problems and their solutions are exaggerated.
The subject matter of
myths are issues in real life like murder, cannibalism, matricide, patricide,
fratricide, infanticide, rape and suicide.
Suicide in women in
Classical Mythology asks the questions that are even now misunderstood. Why is
death preferable to life? When is suicide acceptable or necessary?
Some causes of
suicide are grief, shame, madness, self-sacrifice, fear and frustration.
Grief is a response
of agonizing and sorrowful distress to a death or loss. Grief is a reaction to
one's feelings of loss of control over life situations with loss of hope for
the future. The view of the world and reality becomes distorted, and death seems
the only answer to life’s disasters.
In ancient society a female’s role was primarily in the control of a male. Before marriage, the control was held by her father, but with marriage she was physically, economically and psychologically transferred to her husband, consequently owned by her mate. The physical dependence on males was so embedded in society that the female personality and social function was only complete in its relationship to the male. With the loss of the male authority, females could no longer perceive a role in society, and so suicide may occur.
Without their
husbands a widow’s status was typically destitute or lacking. These ideas of being
made empty or lacking means that marriage allows a woman to fulfill herself and
with the loss of the male, she becomes
half; since marriage has made two of one, a widow is a woman that is not whole.
The second most common grief for women is the loss of their child. The experience
of childbirth combined with the social role of motherhood is more devastating
in females than males; the number of mothers who commit suicide upon the death
of their sons shows the profundity of grief to which they succumb. The
mythological stories of mothers who commit suicide at the loss of children deal
mostly with the loss of famous sons.
When celebrated women
are abandoned by their lovers not only are in essence widowed, but they may
also have to face the censure of their societies. The women's betrayal of home or country and
the shame that results combines with the grief felt by abandonment.
A sense of shame was
a powerful motivation in the ancient world It is also associated with
people who have strong feelings. Traditionally women are considered to put more
worth in feelings more than thinking, in the ancient world shame far
overshadows guilt in suicide in both male and females.
The
mythological instances of females committing suicide either to avoid rape or,
if unable to avoid rape, to display the resultant repugnance and shame.
When the rapist is a
relative, sexually abusive incest, the victim is not merely suffers from the
violation against her virtue of chastity, but also feels the effect of an offence
against the reverence with which relatives should be regarded. Suicide seems to point to from a female
perspective there is a sense of self-worth that motivates one to choose
honorable death over living in shame.
Sometimes instead of
unrequited love leads to suicide the actions of the females lead s to a
profound sense of shame that in turn prompts their self-destruction.
The usual link
between mental illness and suicide for mythological characters; it is rarely is
attributed to madness in mythology.
Throughout Greek
mythology the idea of placing patriotic concerns over personal concerns to the
point of self sacrifice for the benefit of the community. The noble suicide of
these individuals to sacrifice her self for a greater good had an inclination
to self-reliance and a severe devotion to social demands.